average from 27 - 59 years old, with a variety of body types—athletic, bears, slim, and everything in between. While some groups have seen a majority of participants around 40-45 years old, there is always a comfortable balance, so you don't need to worry about fitting into a specific mold. This retreat isn't about comparison or validation through 'scoring' with the most attractive person. If you're coming with that mindset—seeking validation through sexual encounters or trying to impress others—this might not be the right space for you. Although we have room for sexual practices, the focus here is on surrender: surrender to the retreat, the process, and the energy that emerges naturally.

If you're drawn mainly by the idea of being around attractive people, it may be worth reflecting on deeper psychological aspects. Ask yourself if you're truly here for self-growth and expansion, or if you're just chasing external validation. Yes, there are attractive people here, but the retreat isn't a place for 'Validation Queens'—unless you're willing to work on that aspect consciously. Often, the most meaningful connections aren't with the people you initially find physically appealing, and many of the deepest experiences arise from moments of vunlnerability and affection, not from sexual encounters. It's in these spaces where real magic can unfold.

You are never required to participate in anything—everything is an invitation. The retreat invites you to connect authentically with people who might not fit your 'usual type,' especially in exercises involving energy, vulnerability, and affection. If more intimate or sexual exercises are introduced, the choice will always be yours, and part of the process is learning to navigate those choices, as well as dealing with any rejections that might arise. We offer various tools to help you manage these experiences and tune into what you truly desire beyond surface-level sexual anxieties.

And don't worry about whether the group will be interesting or attractive enough for you—there's always a healthy mix of personalities and appearances. If you feel drawn to this experience, trust that the right people will be there. 

Our main concern lies with individuals who come seeking to feel superior based on who they hook up with or sleep with, as that kind of energy disrupts the space. This retreat is about deeper connections and genuine exchanges, and if that resonates with you, you'll find the right atmosphere here.

Hello straight man, if you made it this far and felt called, welcome to the Body&Heart retreat for MEN.

We are mostly gay/bi men wanting to open up affectively and emotionally. I think most likely you feel that same need!

Emotional-affective openness is something that men lack, regardless of sexual orientation.

STRAIGHT MAN CONFIDENT OF HIS SEXUAL ORIENTATION: All the straight men who came to my group work had wonderful experiences. Mainly because you won't have to struggle with the desire (eg. in sensory practices) and will go deeper within yourself. This is a unique opportunity. If you were in a group with women it would be more difficult to stay focused on your inner process.!

STRAIGHT MEN INSECURE/Disgusted/DIFFICULTY WITH OTHER MEN: If you feel this is the time for you to open up, welcome! We will be very happy to provide a safe space for you. Remembering, if there is any exercise that you are not comfortable with, you can not do it, adapt it or just watch it. It's a unique opportunity for you to be more relaxed and affectionate with other men in a safe space without judgments.

CURIOUS STRAIGHT MAN: Yes, we will have plenty of space to explore safely and consciously. But much more than exploring mental desire/fantasy, the retreat will bring the perception of energy and love that every human being has, regardless of labels. It can be a much broader opportunity than it seems. 

Maybe not. But welcome to explore the world of parasympathetic sexuality/affectivity and how much more intense it can be than spending nights in orgies having sex with drugs. 

About fetish, the retreat will invite you to learn to put your mind aside, leave aside ways of thinking that follow limiting rules. So you will basically learn to reach the levels of pleasure that the fetish brings you without the need for scripts or behaviors

That's great! You will have more energy available to perform the exercises.

You will get new tools to learn how to channel your sexual energy into other areas of your life! 

The event will be filmed and photographed. You can pay the fee to become unrecognizable (blur on face and tattoos) in photos and videos. Just remember this is the main tool to keep the event alive. So Dani really appreciate if you can be part of our digital art (video and photos)

Dani will always show you and asks your permission before posting anything, if you decide to show up.

This retreat is open to both singles and monogamous couples, with several options depending on your situation. You can attend as a single person, or as part of a couple, whether you're attending together or separately. The retreat focuses on individual inner work, with the group serving as a support to help you open up and access your inner truth. We provide various guidelines to make sure everyone feels safe and comfortable.

For example, if you're in a monogamous relationship and attending alone, the facilitator can speak with your partner to establish rules and boundaries that make both of you feel secure during the retreat. 

If you're attending as a couple, you'll gain tools to communicate clearly and tune into what makes each of you comfortable or uncomfortable. Couples can choose to do the exercises exclusively with each other, or if both feel comfortable, they can engage with others in certain activities.

In exercises such as those involving affection or nudity, the couple decides what feels right for them. If at any point someone feels insecure, they can stop and reconnect with their partner. It's a very safe space—there's no need to worry. However, if your relationship is in a difficult place and you're hoping to revive it, it's best to speak with the facilitator beforehand.

Everything is a possibility, and if you still have any doubts or concerns, feel free to send me a WhatsApp message. I'll be happy to clarify your questions.

We have a ritual for body acceptance. You can adapt in the best way for your moment. Nothing is mandatory! Do whatever is more comfortable to you. You just need be aware there will be people naked around you at some point. Nudity is always welcome in the working hall, sleeping rooms and waterfall. 

A common comment I hear from hypersexual people during the retreat is: 'Oh, that was so much more intense than an orgy with G.' If you're looking for an event to satisfy your unconscious desires, I do not recommend this retreat. This is not about penetrative sexual practices or anything conventional that you already know. While it can happen, that's really not the point.

We will engage in sensory practices to consciously learn how to feel pleasure, lust, and tenderness. You'll also learn to channel that excess sexual energy—even for healing or manifestation purposes, whether for yourself or others, which can be an amazing experience!

If you struggle with sexual anxiety or hypersexuality, this retreat will help you integrate that energy in a healthy way, sometimes even allowing you to feel more pleasure!

This is a safe space for you to open up at your own pace and at your own way. Everything with fluidity.; slowly.

If you have this kind of difficulty you should come to the retreat. Here it is not a performing space. This are practices to learn how to open up. Be very welcome if you asked yourself this question.

And don`t worry about others: the hipersexual, exhibitionist, boastful, super liberal guys will also face their hindrances. Usually men have a lot of difficulties to allow themselves to feel love and affection. Yet, after the first day usually everybody tunes in empathy. So everyone will be there holding space for you. (And the group will expect the same from you).

Welcome. We don't want to indoctrinate anyone, quite the contrary! We want to bring you the feeling of emotional freedom, take your energy to its peak and keep it there for a long period! We want you to clear away any sense of guilt and shame created by religious institutions. Possibly, you might find a transcendental experience. Or simply learn to be more open to life and feel long lasting pleasure

Unlike other spiritual practices that deny or repress sexuality, Tantra uses se.xua.l energy as fuel for our divine presence.

We invite you to delve deeper into your spiritual practice integrated with your sexuality. But as I always say, in your time. So yes, you can just to the meditation and energy practices.

If you asked yourself this question you must be stuck in the validation cycle in your sexual pursuit. At the retreat you will learn to see beyond appearances and objectification. The choice of partner should be someone who inspires confidence and not necessarily imagery attraction. The exercises in pairs are affective-energetic and not se.xu.al.

Sometimes the teacher chooses the pairs, sometimes the choice is free. We usually let fate/randomness choose. OBVIOUSLY if there is someone you don't feel comfortable with for whatever reason you are not obligated.

We will have instructions on how to communicate our limits, desires and learn how to transmute rejection and emotional triggers energy.

This person will quickly get the vibe of the retreat. In 30 minutes of practice, we will all immerse ourselves in affective communion.

We have many rules on how to behave and deal with our desire and hornyness during practice. The work is precisely how to feel without respond; how to transmute energy and desire into something subtle. So it`s a training for all of us to learn how to stay within even in a very 'uhum' moment.

If the person felt called, there is a reason why he's there.

Usually these people have a lot of se.xu.al energy and inevitably, in this retreat, it will reflect very strongly on their emotions. It's going to be an intense inner journey. Do not worry about their behavior.

Part of the job is to understand the moments when we try to take advantage of situations to have a misery of pleasure (ex. trying to feel the masseur co.ck). We want to learn to put these states of misery aside and step in real pleasure, se.xual, emotional and even spiritual (for some).

Obviously, if the participant does not cooperate with the rules, he will be prevented from doing the practices. (Happened only once in over 25 retreats and workshops).

Don't worry, the instructor is very careful and controlling with the group flow VERY!

It is very beautiful and rewarding to see hyperse.xua.lized people learning to channel their sexual energy to spirituality. It is often these hyperse.xuali.zed people who help those in need of deeper healing. Because they have a lot of energy to give. And they get the healing tools. And magic happens.

Yes!

First of all, listen to the call within your heart to participate in this work.

And yes! It can help a lot to process stagnant emotions and bring more calm and clarity to our being.

Hear the call within your heart.

The retreat process can be very intense but very liberating.

If this issue still destabilizes you, I recommend you doing an individual session (online or in person) beforehand so that we can understand your process.

Wonderful. Have you read uol's article about my post-chems resensitization work? here or ask Daniel.

This is emotional empathetic opening work. So yes, you will absorb everything and learn how to transmute these energies without having to protect yourself and create barriers. Tantra is openness. And we need to have tools to live openly.

Already in the first exercises we will be much lighter and cleaner energetically and emotionally. Don't worry.